there has got to be a point where u guys stop calling every man who is into trans girls and is *even remotely vocal about it* a chaser like we will never progress…

like I would love to live in a state of the world where it doesn’t need to be announced but it’s not exactly the norm is it every dude is just assumed to not be into it unless they state otherwise

and I swear 90% of so called chasers are just regular creepy guys that definitely pull the same game on cis women like yeah it’s kinda cringey but some guys are just desperate for any kind of female attention they’re not necessarily fetishising us

I got catcalled by some guy riding past on a bike like last weekend and it’s still bothering me lmao like that was so humiliating and for why

i think the thing is I was like about to cross the road and he did it really loudly and then literally everyone on the street and ppl across the street at a cafe or whatever started staring at me and I was like 😐

especially bc I was wearing like relatively revealing clothing so then it just felt like they were all judging me for attracting attention to myself

i think what’s wild is that I never really had gender dysphoria before I transitioned bc I was so focused on the performance of being a man, it wasn’t until I actually had to face trying to look like a woman against the body I was given that I was like oh yeah this sucks

especially bc I kind of had a conventionally attractive body for a guy at my age like tbh I got so much attention I never really had a second to even criticise myself for it I was just really confused at why I felt 0 fulfilment out of life, more than I was depressed over my body

like idk maybe difficult to put into words but my experience of knowing I am a woman and I had to transition to feel happy was way less of a physical thing and more of a mental one, but changing my body has been very euphoric and great don’t get me wrong

I guess I think it’s just important that we realise that just bc someone who’s trans didn’t feel extremely unhappy with who they were before doesn’t mean that they don’t have the right to be happy with who they are now

someone is already trying to use this as a gotcha lmao, common anti-trans rhetoric is that trans women are just dysphoric males that have been mistreated - surely my point here is pretty strongly shattering that logic

trying to find a flat to rent in glasgow that will accept my cats and I have given up hope already they’re all like 😠 no pets 😠